If I could a letter to you, I would remind you everyday that you aren't perfect and I love you just the way you are. You will sin, you will be a bad mother, wife, teacher, daughter, daughter-in-law, and friend, you will make mistakes, not everyone will like you. But its OK. Do your best and don't be too hard on yourself. Learn from life and teach your children how to live life. Trust in God for everything because you have no control over anything. Smile often. Laugh much. Love with every ounce of yourself. Spend time with those who don't care if your house is clean, your dishes are done, and your laundry is folded. Take time to pray, cuddle, relax, and play tractors. Run to make yourself feel good and be healthy, not to be skinny. God has made you for a purpose. Just be.